Let go. Cheer up. Live hard.



I am quite moved by the incident and many others of which I read in the newspapers or other media.
The right way to fight back or avenge is to live, survive, excel and conquer and not by ending the precious life.
RIP Jiah Khan
You are gorgeous and pictures I had seen of you portrayed strength, confidence and enormous potential.
Wish there was somebody around to stop and helped you recover the strength.
I think it is a very delicate, ultra-sensitive phase between one feeling so heart-broken and worthless to decide to end the life vs and the moment of realization where all strength gushes and rushes back to you to let to decide to live and live hard.
It is like standing on a hair strand thick wall and deciding to jump on which side of the wall. One side there is plush warm bed that lets you sleep like a baby, dream of beautiful hopeful dreams and awakens you up to continue the precious life with vigour, wisdom, strength and determination. The other side is Abyss. There is not return, undo or ctrl+z.
You give the person you love so many chances to prove, deserves you, ignore the short-comings, forgive the mistakes and mend your heart for their sake. Why didn’t you give one chance to yourself?
Don’t you love thyself?
The most loved person should be you and then should come anyone else, and only then we can do justice in loving the others. This is what I’d like to believe.
Come on… nothings bringing the world to an end. Even the Mayans decided to postpone the end of the world to don’t know when.
There is no question in the world that deserves ending life as the answer. It is just not an option. Sorry.

 Go figure out something else with that big human brain of yours. I am sure we are that much intelligent. After all, we are the most intelligent specie.
Get help, drink up, eat up or just have a good sleep, share, cry, write, embarrass yourself… whatever. When you have let gone all the pain, which you will eventually… then get yourself buckled up, put yourself together and live on. The worst has passed. Life is yours.
Cheers.

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